When
we blame, we suffer. When we move beyond blaming, we find joy, success,
and freedom. Becoming an adult is about learning to take 100 % responsibility
for your thoughts, emotions, words, and actions. Responsibility
is power, and we claim it when we move beyond blaming. Order the
book, Beyond Blaming, at http://intelligentspirit.com/catalog.html
Part
2: Moving Beyond Self-Blaming
Self-Blaming
is no more effective than blaming others. Blaming leads to guilt,
and guilt diminishes us. Move beyond blaming self and learn to be
present and responsive to others. Order the book, Beyond Blaming,
at http://intelligentspirit.com/catalog.html
Part
3: Center of Influence
In
each human interaction we make a choice. We are either a center
of influence, or we are a center of attention. As a center of influence
you know that you are a nucleus, and that everything you think,
say, and do has a ripple effect. Order the book, Beyond Blaming,
at: http://intelligentspirit.com/catalog.html
Part
4: The Spirit of Blamelessness
We
cannot expect the Palestinians, the Israelis, the Iraqis, or any
other groups that are at war to embrace peace unless we are willing
to do it ourselves. Can you be the presence of peace at your holiday
family gathering? Can you be blameless and nonjudgmental with that
family member you find so irritating? Are you willing to let go
of resentments and disappointments in order to experience greater
well-being? This video offers a spiritual (not religious) technique
for moving beyond blaming. It is offered to
you generically.
Order the book, Beyond Blaming, at http://intelligentspirit.com/catalog.html